Is religion based on Fear or Respect?

the definition of fear is the perceived felling to stop something from happening. like to stop yourself from going to hell you act good to go to heaven. this fear of hell is used to dictate others to build there life around the bible. the Definition of Respect is to admire one so much as to perceive them as great. i do not believe that this Respect for god would drive people to go to church every sunday or build ones life around a book aka the bible. for all who have read the bible see he is great but not perfect.