I feel like my family is being really ist toward me?

It is ist and I'm the same way you are. As we speak I'm wearing jeans and a black Nirvana shirt. I've never liked wearing revealing clothes. I never liked cooking until recently but my boyfriend and I share our chores, like I usually cook just because he doesn't know how and I don't want him to ruin it, but we clean the house together and do the laundry together and stuff like that. I think its bull that you're family is like that. Woman don't just have one role and purpose in life. Just ignore them and try to surround yourself with people who don't care.